I'm 28 And Still On This Website

Libra. ISFP. She/her.

“Peace and joy be with them, harmony and wisdom.”

Jun 25

arborealgargoyle:

stickandthorn:

One of the worst parts of current internet culture is that it makes good old fashioned complaining so difficult. I don’t wanna cancel anyone or bully anyone, I’m not trying to form a hate mob I’m not calling anyone out, i just wanna bitch about something. Because complaining is fun, good for you, even. Is that too much to ask? Where is the room for shooting the shit?

THIS. i’ve posted about this before because it really isn’t just internet culture. it goes farther than that and connects to how much censorship and book banning we’re seeing. i read a book a while back that i HATED. like, it sucked ass so bad. and i wanted to talk about that, especially because i had really like *parts* of it, and i wanted to dissect that in a complex and nuanced conversation.

but the book in question had recently been the target of a number of bans because it had queer characters in it. so how tf could i post something online that pointed out issues with this story that i hadn’t actually seen anyone complain about yet? i mean, i could i guess. but it would have felt dirty.

reactionary culture creates a society that views everything as a dichotomy of absolute good and absolute evil. with this kind of thinking, we’re only able to respond to any sort of criticism not with a nuanced discussion that allows people to let off steam or even learn something about themselves and others, but ONLY with canceling and harassing people or banning books or the like. anti-intellectualism at its most dangerous.

we should be able to complain that something just wasn’t for us and we’re irritated with it! or even that it *is* for us but we’re pissed about some element of it! shoot the shit!

we should also be able to have complex discussions about media that isn’t perfect without it getting removed from libraries. because perfection is impossible! our libraries will be empty.

(via the-grey-hunt)


cock-holliday:

Remembering the time my old nb roommate who went to an LGBT law conference and was heaping the absolute biggest bitchfit texting me cause “some cis guy” was talking about trans people and trans men in particular and my roommate refused to listen to what this guy said cause “why should I listen to him” and I said “are you sure he’s cis?” And then towards the end of the presentation he said something that indicated to the crowd he was a trans man and then suddenly my roommate started to consider what had been shared.

Absolute loser behavior, but not completely unique. We’ve all gotta stop saying only x people can talk about x issues for us to listen. Too many people in the in group will have dogshit takes no one wants to challenge because “well, they are x identity.” Likewise, plenty of people on the out group actually know what they’re talking about and have something to contribute to the conversation.

Especially when it comes to sexuality and gender, you relying on someone outing themselves or you clocking them to decide whether their words have merit is shitty, because you won’t always know if they ARE the group “allowed” to talk about it. And even beyond that, I knew a fuckload about transness before I realized I was trans, it helped me REALIZE I was trans. “Listen to x voices” got sooooo warped in the discourse.



Jun 23

murasaki-cha:

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Truly some of the greatest detective minds to ever detective

(via the-grey-hunt)


Jun 22

jeanjauthor:

lemonsharks:

just-another-cat-blog:

pride month!!!

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Is that a miette?

Pride for you!  Pride for a thousand years!!

(via the-grey-hunt)


Jun 21

spooktacularhalloween:

HAPPY SUMMER SOLSTICE!

There’s only 132 days until Halloween and I am counting every single second.

(via raising-daisies)


mistress-light:

I wish to see her smile again, with my own eyes.

(via silentteal)


thefingerfuckingfemalefury:

brightlotusmoon:

I found photos of those Pallas Cat kittens born this year and bye I’m deceased


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THEY ARE SO FLUFFY

(via beturass)


shyrule:

silent princesses and blue nightshade growing next to each other makes me so insane zelink is real


Jun 20
alaeries:
“Light in the Sky 🌟
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alaeries:

Light in the Sky 🌟

(via embyrinitalics)


Jun 10

ilovedirt:

sweetenby:

weaver-z:

rainbow-lizzard:

elodieunderglass:

gasterofficial:

weaver-z:

weaver-z:

weaver-z:

Fondly remembering the time that a cat owner casually entered their calico Maine Coon in a cat fancier’s competition and the judges lost their minds because the cat was 1) male and 2) able to bear children

Anyway here’s Dawntreader Texas Calboy as a silly lil kitten

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Here’s an excerpt from one of the articles about the drama his entry caused among the Cat Fanciers that I thought was very earnest and sweet <3

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And also some of Calboy’s children!

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@pangur-and-grim

He is fearfully and wonderfully made!

tumblr tags that say "trans king we love him!!"

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I was about to say he would technically be an intersex king (not because I dislike the concept of trans cats, just bc intersex rep is sorely needed too) but I did some more reading on this icon and actually found the article OP referenced.

Screenshot that says: In Stevenson’s research, she learned that in the rare case of a male calico, it usually has Klinefelter’s syndrome, a chromosomal makeup of XXY that renders the cat sterile. Stevenson keeps her fertile males separated from the females, but since Calboy was young and infertile, she let him run free throughout their house. Then, at just over 7 months old, Calboy proved to be a stud. “I had all these females all of a sudden that were pinked up,” Stevenson says. “Thankfully, he did not get to his mom or grandma.”

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He’s not your usual male calico kitty as it turns out. That’s already cool and rare, but he’s even cooler and rarer than that!

Screenshot that reads: When the kittens arrived, their colors were all over the place. She wondered if maybe one of the kids let a male out of its room. There was only one way to know for sure. She swabbed the inside of Calboy’s cheek and sent it off to the Veterinary Genetics Laboratory at the University of California, Davis for testing, along with samples from two different colored kittens. They told her the sample was contaminated; Calboy’s results showed two cats. She tried swabbing again, this time videotaping the process to prove the sample was uncontaminated. Again, the lab work showed two sets of DNA. Seeing that the variants on the genes were exactly the same, the lab was able to confirm: Calboy was a chimera.

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Screenshot that reads: Sometime early on in utero, two embryos that would normally develop into two different cats, each with its own set of DNA, fused together and grew into one cat. This does not mean Calboy is a hermaphrodite; he doesn’t have any other extra organs or body parts. It means he’s a kitty cocktail carrying two kinds of DNA. Some of his cells carry one cat’s set, some the other.

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Calboy is a chimera!! Which is really fucking cool of you ask me. The chances of having a male calico this way are slim to none, but the mad lad still exists! What an icon. I would die for Calboy.

Everyone in the tags of this post @ cat show judges

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Originally I was looking for an adult picture of Calboy

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(He’s so pretty 🥰)

But I also found a source for the article screenshotted above! And folks it’s WILD. It’s an incredibly interesting read if you happen to love hearing about niche hobby drama. It’s also just a fantastically written article!

The parts I find the most interesting are about how conservative the cat fanciers association is. This isn’t even all of the parts that talk about that.

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People are so mad about this cat spefically because he has female colors. An animal who couldn’t choose how it was born. This is happening in Texas by the way. Hm. I wonder how they treat trans people over there?

Reblogging again for this crucial addition

(via the-grey-hunt)


Jun 6

nadiasna7:

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Oh, please, say to me
You’ll let me be your man
And please, say to me
You’ll let me hold your hand

And when I touch you
I feel happy inside
It’s such a feeling that, my love
I can’t hide

Erik craves physical touch but doesn’t know how to ask for it. Thankfully, Charles doesn’t need words.

(via jackyjango)


padme-amidala:

― E.K. Johnston, Queen’s Shadow

ERIKA’S 1.5K CELEBRATION:
🪐 + PADMÉ AMIDALA or Rhaenyra Targaryen for @wandamaximoffs

(via swladies)


Jun 2

thewarpeffect:

link holding zelda’s torch for her without her needing to ask btw. if you even care.


May 25

mcu:

But in all honesty, if I wanted to kill you… You would have already. Right as you open the door.

(via lets-talk-about-x-bay-bey)


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